When spouses do not get along, they often go into a divorce with the mindset that they want to take their soon-to-be-ex-spouse for everything they have. They might try to, essentially, win the divorce. The pain and stress of ending an unhappy marriage can be a lot to...
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Month: October 2019
Tips to avoid playing the blame game during divorce
It is only human to find someone to blame when a marriage does not work out. Finding fault seems to make the situation easier, but in the long run, it can hurt both spouses and the family. So, how can spouses pursuing a divorce avoid “the blame game?” Contemplate your...
Tips to make the most of your parenting time
Finding a new rhythm after a divorce can be a challenge for both parents and their children. It can be tough to get used to single life again after a divorce and move forward as a parent, especially when parents must share parenting time between the two of them. So,...
What is a “divorce from bed and board?”
There are many ways to pursue a divorce, from negotiating in alternative dispute resolution or taking matters to court. Regardless of the process individuals choose, many people believe there is still only one kind of divorce–an absolute divorce that legally ends a...
Tips for managing social media during your divorce
The precarious relationship that individuals have with social media can cause divorcing spouses a significant amount of stress. Compared to all of the details involved in a divorce-from deciding who receives what property to determining a fair child custody...
Create a safety plan when leaving an abusive relationship
Leaving a situation of domestic violence and pursuing a divorce can seem overwhelming. But it is possible to leave and obtain a safe and healthy future. One helpful way individuals can take action when planning to leave is by establishing a safety plan. That way, they...
What to do when your spouse doesn’t want a divorce
Spouses who choose to mediate their divorce usually agree to compromise and negotiate throughout the process. However, not even the couples who pursue mediation agree to divorce right away. It is a common situation. One spouse asks for a divorce, and the other is...